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my husband does not want me to lose

It is so hard to lose weight because of my husband i have been trying the Atkins and its the only thing that works for me but my husband came home a brought me a med mocha iced latte with whip cream and sugar , chocolate chip muffin ...i was upset and at the same time i wanted it... but he always bring me one everyday before i started the no sugar at all and water only...so i said OK ill have it , i thought i was going to feel like a failure and end the diet but no i dint i felt proud because usually when i drink coffee i give up all diets and i was a sugar addict and im proud to say in just one week im no longer a sugar addict.. i drank the coffee and ate the muffin and i realized that i don't like sugar anymore. i don't need my coffee and sugar anymore im proud of my self....when i saw him bring it i was set to fail again and give up and continue eating carbs all over again.. even tho i drank and ate that stuff i still feel motivated to continue ... Still feel positive nothing is bringing me down this time.. we may fail but still continue not giving up..

Published Saturday, March 02, 2013 03:46 PM by gilzene20

Filed Under: Cravings / Problem foods, Personal observations & lessons learned

Comments

getinrip said:

You should ask hubby not to bring you home those kinds of things anymore! Tell him you are trying to make changes and you need his support in the matter. So if he truely luv ya he will respect your wishes...So keep at it and soon enough you will suceed .... GOOD LUCK !

March 02, 2013 04:58 PM EST

Golf Gal Cheryl said:

Hey G lesson learned...good girl for getting back on plan. I 2nd what rip said. Sounds like hubby is trying to sabatoge you girl...???

March 02, 2013 05:16 PM EST

CynthiaThurmond said:

No. You should of poured that stuff out and tossed the muffin in the trash. It is not ok and he will keep doing it. Men get scared when a woman starts caring about what they look like and start losing weight. They worry that some other man will get you. If you would of trashed that food, he wouldnt do it again. But he will continue since you gave in. You may have beat that craving stage, but you will now have to start over. Do this for you. He wants you to stay like you are because its his security. I know because this is my third husband and he knows better. I have learned to be strong and if I fail, its on me, I wont let someone else do that to me. You say you have this under control, but do you? You ate it anyways knowing its not allowed. I am being honest with you and I dont sugar coat anything. I want you to be strong and reach your goal.

March 02, 2013 06:07 PM EST

getinrip said:

Not all men cynthia ;-)

March 02, 2013 07:54 PM EST

joy1228ce said:

I am proud of you! You recognized some things about yourself and now you know what to do next time. Don't let this get you down and don't give into any more. We are going to have days when we stumble and fall, and we have to pick our selves back up again and start over. The main thing is that we keep trying til we get it right. Cause we all know what happens when we give up. Good luck to you and stay strong. You can make it!

March 03, 2013 12:28 AM EST

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